For both you and the other anon: Work hard at it, if you can get something set up its amazing. I don't have a live in setup, but currently there are a few guys who can come to my house at any time and just use me. They even have their own keys. While its a long way from the fantasy, its amazing and worth the effort. So go online, go out and find some local guys into it. You won't regret it. And if you want more details just say. Happy to share~!

Sounds like a good setup, with people you trust.