ihavebeenexceptionallynaughty:

eternalstudent007:

My kind of girl!  ;)

(Just to be clear, some people support patriarchy as a serious ideology. I do not agree with that. But when a girl chooses to give me power over her, I enjoy it.)

You get it. 😊

For everyone else, there’s a way to follow your dreams and fuck the way you want to fuck while minimizing risk:

Step 1: Talk and make sure this guy shares your kinks but is also a good person. Do you trust that he knows how common human decency and kindness works? Does he respect hard limits and safewords? Is he kind to wait staff and baristas? If not, run away.

(Pro tip: Dudes who are exceedingly good with children, animals, and wait staff also tend to be the meanest motherfuckers out there. Look for this level of care and kindness.)

Step 2: Keep talking. Establish trust. Become friends.

Step 3: Let that motherfucker destroy you and thank him when he does.

Being mean to people who want you to be mean to them is just good manners.