All fantasy is permissible
Why do you write more of this-type-of-story instead of that-type-of-story?
Whether you’re writing for money or attention, the reason is the same: You write what the market wants to get the most out of the market.
The market loves things like “The Sexual Service Act” and “Mind Blank” stories. The loudest supporters who contact me being women, not men. The loudest of all being a self-proclaimed lesbian, which I appreciate, even if I don’t completely get the draw for her. I welcome her with open arms to go ahead and enjoy a fantasy about being dominated by men. It’s her mind, she can play in it as she likes.
I do write femdom stories. They don’t sell, they don’t get as many reblogs… they just don’t get the same level of traction. I write them because I enjoy them and despite the desires of the market and my core demographic, but at the end of the day, I devote most of my time to what my audience, in the majority, wants.
I have very little reason to respond to a niche within a niche within a niche unless it profits me in either attention or money. Sometimes I do, but again, that is despite my desire for both attention and monetary gain.
It’s the same for people writing only for the readership. They don’t have much of a reason to write a story that only two or three people are going to read. They want to maximize the return on the attention they get so they will tend to write “what sells.”
The people who enjoy the fantasy of dominating every woman or of being dominated by every man don’t really have to stop enjoying their fantasy world just because you find their fantasies odious. They are welcome to their fantasies. They are welcome to “the
All fantasy is permissible because it is not real.