and
“Ugh! I hate going to office parties! Bob always fucks me in the ass and then cums all over my face while talking about his cat,” she said.
Are treated as “about equally annoying things that happen” as that’s the general mindset in most of the settings. That sex is just about the same level of personal interaction as shaking hands or making small talk. It’s just something you do as part of society.
I’ll keep in mind some posts and/or stories in which women enjoy being spanked and punished :)