Hey, love your stuff! Is there a Holocade story where the 'girl' is constantly visited by her boyfriend (or husband!), who uses the simulation to do all of the degrading things he wants to do with the real girl but knows she'd never go for?

Hmmm… the closest is probably the most recent one with the ex, though there’s one where a guy uses the holocades, in general, to get off in ways his GF is not up for:

http://masterlovehurts.tumblr.com/post/172780315561/she-knew-her-lungs-werent-real-her-throat-her

All of the holocade posts are here: http://masterlovehurts.tumblr.com/tagged/holocade

I’m also planning a short story (or series) to publish as Broken Arrow of this holocade theme.